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Yvonne Sillett

My name is Yvonne Sillett

I'm a 61-year-old, gay veteran.

I served in the Royal Australian Army

from the 22nd of January 1979

until the 2nd of February 1989.

I was the very first female to raise

a female platoon at 1 Recruit

Training Battalion at Kapooka.

Up until 1985, females had

always trained separately in Sydney.

And in January 1985, female recruits

went to 1 Recruit Training Battalion

and I was the first female Section

Commander.

I loved everything about it.

I loved the camaraderie.

I loved the physical aspect.

I loved the drill.

I loved the mateship.

And most of all, I loved the sport.

I had to learn

how to fire a rifle.

I had to strip and assemble a rifle.

I had to climb walls.

I had to climb ropes.

I'd never done that before

because it was a new world

for women in the military at that stage.

I found that challenging, but not as

challenging as being gay in the military.

One afternoon on shift,

I received a phone call to say

I had to go down to Victoria Barracks

for a security interview.

I had no clue what this was about.

I went down there, and I was confronted

by male Sergeant and a female Sergeant

who said they knew

that I was homosexual.

They had been following me.

And at that point in time

I knew my career was about to end.

I was an exemplary soldier.

I was a trailblazer.

I felt that I did nothing wrong.

I was going to be promoted

to a sergeant.

I was going to go back to being a

training instructor as a sergeant.

And due to my sexuality, that all

came crashing down. I was shattered.

And I was devastated that

my career came

to a premature halt simply for being me.

So, it's given me discipline,

it's given me confidence,

and now it's given me the ability

to try and fight for justice, for the way

many ADF members

because of their sexuality were treated.

So, it's given me the power, strength

to speak for others.

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